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July 03rd, 2010 | Author: Valerie

On Monday, I was going about my afternoon when suddenly my boss rushed through the office door (which was shut to keep in the air conditioning) with six anxious children right behind her.

“Miss Winters, are you afraid of birds?” I heard her ask, and turned around to find her holding an injured Robin in her hands.

Honestly, I wasn’t really sure. I didn’t want to be afraid of the bird but wasn’t always totally cool with things just wandering around. I’ve gotten more accustomed in recent years (gerbils at the last school helped with that), but random bird fluttering about the office was an unsure thing for me. But, I saw six worried little faces and said, “Of course not! What happened?”

Six little voices started to explain. “We found him.”

“He was trapped in the netting in the blueberry bushes.”

“We think he has a broken leg.”

“Can you help him, Miss Winters?”

Oh. We’ve gone from, “Are you afraid?” to “Will you help him?” I turned back around to my computer, opened Firefox to Google.com, and searched for the nearest vet, picked up the phone and asked a question I never dreamed would come out of my mouth, “Yes, hello. I work at [school] and the children just found a Robin trapped in the netting of our blueberry bushes. We’re pretty sure he has a broken leg; what do we do?”

“Well, don’t touch him. If it’s a baby, his mother won’t come back for him if you’ve touched him.”

“Well, it’s a little late for that. I’ve got him here in the office with me right now. And I don’t think he’s a baby. He’s young, but not a baby.”

“Oh. Ok. Well, call [other vet]. They treat birds.”

I hang up and say, “Ok, kids. I’ve got the name of another vet that treats birds. I need you to stay a little quiet so I can call them.” I call the next vet and explain the situation again.

“Well, we don’t treat wild birds,” I hear through the phone. “But, you could take him to Tufts Wildlife Center.”

“Oh, what’s that? Where’s that?”

The wonderful woman went on to explain where they are and what they do. I am amazed that we have such a thing in our area. I ask if we need to call ahead, and she says no, just take the bird in.

I hang up the phone, greatly relieved. I have good news for these kids. I explained to them that we are very lucky to have a Wildlife Center Vet nearby, and we could take the Robin there. They all cheered. My boss started looking for a box to pack up the bird to keep him safe on the drive. By this point, the poor terrified bird had worked his way into the corner under my office mate’s desk, and he wasn’t really interested in being disturbed. My boss found a box, and she took the kids out to put grass and twigs and food in box for the Robin. After prepping the box, the kids went back downstairs, and my boss prepared to leave and take the bird to Tufts Wildlife Center.

On the way home, I was thinking about the day and how there is never a dull moment in a school–and how you end up doing the wildest things you would have never in your whole life imagined. I called my dad and chatted with him about it all, kind of laughing about the ridiculousness of parts of it.

And then he stopped me and said, “Valerie, I seem to remember a little girl who once rescued a baby rabbit that her dog had injured. Wasn’t his name Brownie?”

Wow. That took me back. I think I must have been about 10. I found the little bunny, hurt on my back porch. I immediately brought him in and made him a bed in a shoe box and tried to feed him carrots (he fit in the palm of my little hand…I doubt he was eating carrots as of yet). Dad was out of town and Mom was less-than-thrilled about this development. But we sure did try to nurse that little guy back to health. He actually made it about a week. He died the night before my birthday, in Mom’s hands, as she was feeding him goat’s milk from an eye-dropper. I guess it’s not all so ridiculous after all…

And our Robin? Tufts Wildlife Center is going to call us when he’s all better, and my boss will go get him so we can release him back at the school. I’m sure that will be a day these precious kids will never forget.

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December 26th, 2009 | Author: Valerie

So, this past week I watched one of my kindergarteners while her parents worked. She is loving kindergarten, loves to learn, loves the challenge, and loves helping her friends figure out things she’s figuring out. It’s really pretty precious.

On Monday, she begged and begged to go to Panera for lunch. I took her there for hot chocolate in the morning, but that was not good enough. We needed to go there to “work through lunch.” Now, I think I know where this comes from. This past summer I watched her older sister when she split her chin at camp and couldn’t return until the stitches were out. I took her older sister to Panera for snack one afternoon. I took my computer to check email, and she brought her summer workbook to do her daily pages–her work.

So, little sister must have gathered from all of that that Panera is where grown-ups go to work while they eat, and now it is her favorite activity with me. We went twice this week! Both days she worked herself so hard that she fell asleep on the two mile drive home. Bless her little heart.

Back to our hot chocolate at Panera on Monday morning, though. As we were finishing up, she decided to show me how she can count by tens. As we walked outside to head over to Target, I asked her if she knew how to count by fives. She said she didn’t and then eagerly asked, “Can you teach me?!” So, I started counting by fives for her, and she quickly figured out the pattern. As we walked through Target, she counted by fives to 100 many times. She was quite pleased with herself.

On Tuesday we ran to the mall for a couple of things. Our first stop was Williams and Sonoma to pick up some yummy biscuit mix that we could make that afternoon. After that we walked over to Macy’s so I could pick up a new compact of foundation. As we walked into Macy’s, her eyes got very big and wide. “Miss Val! Stop!” I heard. So, I stopped.

In front of us on the floor was a huge projected analog clock. She’s just been learning to read time at school, and she was so excited. She wanted to read the clock. So, I kind of cleared the area (as not everyone is so excited by the clock. She was mortified that people would just walk over it!), and I asked her what time it was.

“Miss Val, I can only tell time when the big hand is on the 12, and the big hand isn’t on the 12.”

“Well, where is the little hand?” I asked.

“It’s on the 11.”

“Ok. Remember how we learned to count by fives yesterday? That’s kind of how you read a clock.” I proceeded to walk around the clock and point out all of the numbers. Then I walked around the clock, and we counted by fives around through each number. Then I asked the big question, “So, what time is it?”

“Five. Ten. Fifteen. Twenty! Miss Val, it’s 11:20!”

And suddenly, we heard clapping! I was kind of stunned. I’d been so in our own little world that I hadn’t realized that about 20 people had stopped and gathered to watch me teach this little one how to tell time in the entrance to Macy’s. Oh, she was so proud of herself, but kind of embarrassed. She had a huge smile on her face, but dug her head into my legs. It was a precious moment.

After I picked up my foundation, we had to exit Macy’s the same way we came in. She wanted to see how long we’d been in Macy’s. So, we went through part of the process again. On Wednesday we were back at the mall for something else, and in between each store we had to walk all the way down to Macy’s to see how long we’d been in that particular store. It did slow down our trip a bit, but it was worth every second.

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December 25th, 2009 | Author: Valerie

I’ve had “strangers” on my mind a lot lately. Teaching preschoolers, it’s an important concept to help them understand as they begin to navigate the world. There was a scary incident in the town I work in a while back, and so we took some extra time to teach the kids about safety and how to know whether or not a stranger is safe to talk to.

This past week I watched one of my after care kiddos while her parents worked. I was reminded again about strangers and how kiddos learn about them from her. We were at Williams and Sonoma buying a biscuit mix to bake together, and the cashier asked her a question while I paid.  She looked up at me and waited for a head-nod before she answered the woman. She’s learned to look for the cues from the adults she trusts. This is what I hope to instill in all of my kids.

Sometimes, though, I’m the stranger. And I have to remember that kids have been taught not to talk to strangers, and I need to be careful and appropriate, even when I want to just go pinch their cheeks. Last night at the airport, I chose a rocking chair to sit in while waiting for my flight to board. I got out my yarn and rolled two skeins into balls then began a new project. There was a television above me, so it didn’t surprise me too much when two young girls came and sat down on the floor in front of me–I just thought they were watching the television (though it was CNN and probably not really kiddo-appropriate, which disturbed me).

But then I looked up and realized that they were not watching the television. They were watching *me*. I had noticed them before…they were there with their mom, dad, and baby brother. Mom had gone to the bathroom, and Dad was wrangling all three kiddos on his own. I looked over at him and smiled. He smiled back, so I said to the girls, “Hi, girls! My name is Miss Val. Do you want to see what I’m doing?”

Immediately, I had one girl (I’d guess they were about three and five years old) on each side of the rocking chair. It went something like this. “What are you doing, Miss Val?”

“I’m crocheting. This is called a crochet hook. See how it has a hook at the end. It catches the yarn so I can make a stitch.”

“That’s pretty yarn. Can I touch?”

“Of course! Isn’t it soft? This yarn is wool. Sometimes wool is pretty itchy, but this wool is a nice, soft wool. Do you girls know where wool comes from?”

“Sheep!” I heard in unison.

“Right! Good job!”

And so it went on for about five minutes, until they had to go board their plane. They were little sweeties, so curious. They made my day.

When Mom came back from the bathroom, she was holding a wig, and had a scarf over her head. Probably much more comfortable to travel that way. I wanted to give the girls big hugs when they went to go, but I know which lines not to cross. As they walked back over to their parents, the mom looked at me and mouthed, “Thank you.” I smiled back.

On the plane, though, I was thinking about and wondering what made me a safe stranger. Was it the crocheting? Was it the polka-dot shoes, purposefully mismatched socks, and silly holiday jewelry that pegs me as a preschool teacher? Was it my smile? Was it some sort of secret code that I seemed to know? I’m not sure…it may be a combination of all of those things, for all I know.

I know we live in a sometimes scary world, but I’m glad we’re somehow learning the way to navigate, and teaching our kiddos to also safely navigate. And now? I look forward to many more impromptu crochet lessons in the airport. That one made my day.

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October 18th, 2009 | Author: Valerie

You know the one–the one that gets all giddy at the first snow, even if it’s in the middle of October. Yup. That’s me.

We’re getting a Nor’Easter here in New England today. I picked Mom up at the airport, and we ran a few errands on the way home. The longer we were out, the closer the rain got to snow. By the time we got home, there were ginormous snowflakes. One of our errands was to the grocery store. As we were checking out, the manager came and asked our bagger, “Who was on cart duty last?”

“I was, and I don’t want to do it again,” he responded.

“Snow’s lost its wonder, huh?” I asked.

Yup. That’s me. I ask the teenager in the grocery store if the snow has lost its wonder. I’m that crazy teacher lady that thinks snow should never lose its wonder. I always feel a little different come April, but now? In October? It’s the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen. I mean, come on! Who couldn’t love this?

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So, I’m mulling cider and watching the snowflakes fall. OH! We should turn on the fire place! Only have it for another week! I should take advantage of it.

You can throw things at me. It’s ok. What can I say? I’m a kid at heart. I love snow.

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